How do I protect my children from grooming from predators on the internet?
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It is much easier for someone to hide their true identity online than it is in the real world, so it’s important to talk to your child or teen often about online safety.
Online predators may pose as someone they are not to get kids or teens to participate in inappropriate conversations or to solicit an in-person meet-up. They may send explicit material or request that a child send photos or personal information.
We know this is unsettling to hear, but here are steps you can take to protect your family from online predators:
- Tell your child that people are not always who they say they are. Teach them to be wary of someone who is asking personal questions, sending flattering messages, or requesting photos and tell them to never agree to meet up with someone that they do not know, even if they feel like a “friend.”
- Teach your child or teen to never post personal information. This can include their birthday, address, social security number, driver’s license, passport, or other documents online. Remind them that even though they may be proud of getting their driver’s license, they should not post a photo of themselves holding it.
- Consider monitoring online activity. Depending on your child’s age and access to digital devices, consider checking in frequently on their online activity or placing the computer in a shared space. You can ask to follow their social media accounts and set parental controls on devices and apps, but remember that no system is foolproof.
- Remind them that they can always come to you. Tell your child clearly and directly that they can always come to you if something or someone online makes them uncomfortable. Reassure them that you’ll be there to listen without judgment if something comes up.
Make sure that online safety is an ongoing conversation within your home, leaving the door open for your child or teen to always come to you if they encounter anything concerning. Let them know that your job is to keep them safe online, so you will be actively involved when it comes to their digital life.
Navigating online safety can be overwhelming at times, so reach out to a mental health coach or therapist if you could use some extra support.
Other questions
Am I wrong for not wanting my kids to have a mobile phone? I feel that this is something reserved for a teenager around the ages if 16 and up.
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Unfortunately, there’s no right answer—no perfect age for a kid to get their first phone.
Last night I experienced a parents worst nightmare. I caught my daughter talking to someone online who was clearly lying about their age. What should I do?
The important thing is to keep calm and ensure you're building and maintaining trust with your child. Follow these steps to ensure your kids are kept safe from potentially harmful connections.
My kids aren't on social media sites but they talk to friends using iMessage. How can I be sure they're not talking to strangers or being bullied?
My kids aren't on social media sites but they talk to friends using iMessage. How can I be sure they're not talking to strangers or being bullied?
Last night I experienced a parents worst nightmare. I caught my daughter talking to someone online who was clearly lying about their age. What should I do?
The important thing is to keep calm and ensure you're building and maintaining trust with your child. Follow these steps to ensure your kids are kept safe from potentially harmful connections.
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